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If you are looking for ways to have a life worth living on every level,
then you have come to the right place!

You most likely have come to this site for sexual education, enhancement, healing and advice AND so you shall find it here! This is an area that most agree needs a lot of healing and transformation in our culture, and yet it is indicative of patterns and issues that likely affect more than just one area of our lives interfering with consciously living the life that we crave. We are not only the sum of our parts, but also of the inter-connectivity of many systems that help to create the whole being that we are.

In due respect to our whole nature, , CHt, CDC, TDE encourages you to step back a bit, take a broader perspective, and discover more of the parts of yourself that are contributing to your desire for change and expansion. There is a lot more to life, love and sex than techniques!

is in the process of discoverying how to ride the wave of the joyfilled life herself on every level, and has learned much along the way ~ which she is offering here to share with you! She doesn't pretend to have all the answers, because your journey is your own, but she does know lots of tools that will help you to discover your own special piece of the pie.

  There was a time in when felt helpless and hopless about many aspects of her life, but, somehow she knew there was more than she had been conditioned to expect. As her curiosity and passion for her dreams for a more joyful satisfying life attracted more teachers and experiences revealing possibilities that reflected her dreams far beyond her own imaginings, she also found greater compassion, self-love and personal empowerment along the way,. She discovered that learning how to best embrace the journey towards those dreams is the key. The possibiliites are endless and it is never finished -- only another rung and degree of understanding and awareness on the spiral of learning about life and living.  

will help you to look at the big picture, as well as focusing on the issues that are now clamoring for your attention, to support you in creating the life and experiences in love and relating that will take you further and deeper into the joy of living more fully:

Pysically... mentally, emotionally... spiritually... sexually

What Do You Want?
Life is all about Relationships
To create that dream of a joyfilled, happy life is a possibility. It is all in how you look at it and what you do with it from the inside out. We have learned many things about life thus far -- from within and without. Some of them may no longer serve you in your current experience. When it is time to expand your awareness, you become restless and uncomfortable with what is and desire change. All of this is a normal part of the process.

What is the change that you desire?

~ Happiness
~ Success
~ Love/Compassion
~ Connection
~ Awareness
~ Knowledge
~ Personal Empowerment
~ Self Esteem/Confidence
~ Passion
~ Benevolence
~ Receptivity /vulnerability
~ Relating
~ Life, Love & Sex Skills
~ Wisdom and & Knowledge

You may be ready to take any one of these (or many) to the next level -- at the best pace for you. When you are ready to look in the mirror and take your life in your own hands,
then it is time for us to talk.

From training in Tantra, to Western Psychology, Hypnosis to Shamanism, Kama Sutra, body and energy work and more...
will provide the tools and guidance to help you find your way to whatever you dream of creating!

And there is always room for improvement

As your Life, Love and Sex coach, Shama will support you in exploring:

Your relationship with your self:
* Who are you and why are you here?
* What do you want to change and call into your life?
* The art of Self Loving
* What works and does notwork in your life,
* How to create a more balanced
and centered life
* Uncover old patterns that no longer serve and create new ones
* Create powerful intentions for change and how to better align with them

* How to manage your feelings, emotions,
energy, and reactions more effectively.

Your relationships with others:
* Better communication skills.
* Authenticity
* Replacing outmoded defense mechanisms
* Social skills
* Intimacy and sexual skills
* Boundaries
* Sensitivity, vulnerablility and awareness
* Dealing with challenges

Understanding the role and nature of love and relationship.
Gender differences

Your relationships with
Community/Nation/The Planet
* Do you want to be here?
* What is the quality of your connection with
your experience here?
* How you view yourself as a citizen of this
* How can you be the change you seek?

Our intention is to create greater alignment with what you want and what your are living to be that change!


I am , your Life and Relationship Counselor, and Intimacy Coach, here to guide you into the realm of the Pleasure Paradigm, the pathway to a more joy filled life of personal empowerment, conscious living and loving, deeper intimacy, open heart-to-heart relating, and sacred sexuality.. Take home the tools to empower and ease your journey that you can apply to life, love and sex.

Learn to unleash the personal power that lies within you,
Reclaim more of your true essence,
Transcend limitations,
Empower yourself and your dreams,
Enhance your consciousness and skill in dealing with life and others,
Consciously create more inner harmony and peace,
Improve relationship skills,
Expand your sexual skills, intensity, connection, intimacy and responsivity
and take your life to the next level, from where ever you are on the journey.

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